How trust nurtures brilliance

Ohana's Perspective on Learning

Children’s emotions play a huge role in their early years. They exist like little animals, running totally on their senses and finding their way through life through a combination of nature and nurture. So where is the need for academics in the early years? Why do parents expect, and some schools feel the need, to include academics in their preschools, as an integral part of their programme.

One of the foundation stones of Ohana International School is “for children to leave us confident, independent and with a good sense of self. Then I know that I have given them a true gift.” These are the words spoken so often by their director, Shelley Sacks. She is a firm believer in focusing on the needs of young children and “teaching” them through their interests and feelings, in order for them to achieve reach their maximum potential, while in her care. She also feels strongly about children being given endless opportunities for creativity and wonder; and to use their imagination in their play, art and conversations.

A number of years ago, she had a student who came to her for after school phonics and literacy and he was only 3 years old. She fed and nurtured him through play for an entire year, at the same time questioning herself because she was worried that the parents may want to see an “A” in his workbook with pictures of an apple, alligator, ant and ankle. Every week she would put a review of what they had done that day and the parents didn’t push anything. Trust was the key. They trusted her skills as an educator and “the proof of the pudding was in the eating”. The following year, her work with him became a little more formalized but it happened in a fun creative way, including the development of fine-motor skills, language and more. Yuta is now 9 years old and is an avid reader. She plucked him from the tree at the right time.

The children in her regular class are embraced with love, hugs and boundaries, each day. She tunes in to their needs and for those who love discussions, she makes time for these; those who like having a book read to them, have their special time; those who like her to sit with them and eat lunch, have their time….this is how she teaches children about life. She respects their needs and comes into the classroom as a partner in their learning rather than an “instructor who knows more than they do”. They find things to research together through books and all of this takes place in a warm, loving safe space where you can be angry, happy, sad, moody, unco-operative, irritable and more. There are rules however for expressing some of these emotions and the one in particular, that stands out is “you can be angry but you cannot hurt yourself or anyone.”

She and her team of incredible teachers, Hisami and Liezel, are constantly in conversation about every child in their care; questioning what they are doing and finding ways to negotiate and work positively with children who sometimes have challenging behaviours. They recognize that challenging behaviours are one of the privileges that children display and can display when they are this age.